Been reading a new book called Crucial Confrontations. It talks about how to have those tough conversations when someone disappoints you or lets you down. One of the things that the author tries to stress right from the beginning, is that we can't change what other people do, we can only change what we do, and how we react. It is the first book that I have ever read about how to confront people about their behavior that actually says there are times not to confront someone. Several books have suggested this idea, but wow, this opens up new ideas for me. I am very excited to finish this book and to explore the idea of permission to not confront sometimes.